being yourself and living in accordance with your own will

it's like your being glad is your will showing through (what you want), and same for me

so if another person's being glad takes precedent over your own, then you let their will and what they want take precedent

it's easy for people to consciously and subconsciously use approval-seekers, but a lot of the time approval-seekers are just kind of false and annoying cause they're not really being themselves, they're being who they think others want them to be

that's why I think everyone really want to be a badass, b/c a badass says things like "no" and "fuck that" and "screw you" and are their own person. the trick is to be a badass, but not because you aim to be a badass